Every culture has its own set of behaviors that represent ‘good manners.’ In North America, most of us know enough to say ‘Please’ and ‘Thank you,’ hold the door for others, and cover our mouths when we sneeze or yawn. When it comes to knowing which fork to start with at dinner, though, we may be completely out of our element (FYI: start on the outside of the place setting, and work inward). And if that seems like a test, imagine the stress associated with knowing how to do the right thing when you’re staying in a condo rental Puerto Vallarta.
Good Manners, Mexico-Style
The manners challenge may seem to increase monumentally when you want to put your best foot forward in Mexico. Don’t worry, though; while it’s true that Mexican standards for good manners are somewhat different, they’re not rocket science. In fact, they’re pretty intuitive, and they’re very easy to understand and adapt to.
Body language speaks almost as loudly as words in other cultures, and Mexico is no exception. For example, when you stand with your hands on your hips, locals may see your posture as a sign of aggression; slumping around with your hands in your pockets is considered impolite, and it looks sloppy, to boot. And don’t be concerned if the person you’re talking with doesn’t look you directly in the eye ‘ averting one’s eyes is often a matter of respect.
Come Hither
Don’t be surprised when the person you’re chatting with steps even closer to you; personal space isn’t particularly important here, and if you step back, your action may be viewed in a negative light. In fact, physical contact – touches on the hand or arm – are entirely acceptable behaviors among Mexican people. Don’t be fooled by this seemingly familiar behavior, however; you really shouldn’t use first names until the owner invites you to do so.
A few additional tips:
* You can’t go wrong using Senor, Senora or Senorita when addressing people you’ve just met, including the staff at your villa rental Puerto Vallarta.
* Some topics are best left alone when chatting with locals; these include immigration issues and poverty.
* Wages for many workers in Mexico tend to be low, so tips for any service are always welcome. Remember, though, that courtesy is almost as important as a tip.
* ‘Please’ (por favor) and ‘thank you’ (gracias) work wonders, no matter where you go and what you’re doing.
